Hi! Welcome to another blog post on my website, The Glitter Galaxy Café! In this post, I will be going over all of the details, do's & don'ts of penpalling. This post is for you especially if you are super inspired after watching a cute penpal video and want to make your own custom aesthetic letters with cute stickers and washi tape. Follow this guide, and I assure you that you can make a penpal letter of your own, find a penpal to send it to and maintain friendships that might even last a lifetime! Grab your brush pens and sanrio memo pads, because we are getting started.
Firstly I'd like to embed some inspirational videos if you haven't seen them already, these should give you an idea of what an aesthetic penpal letter looks like - although you are very much encourage to follow any other style or technique you like!!! -
Now, let's dive into the exciting world of cute stationary to create those charming and enchanting penpal letters that will surely brighten someone's day. To begin, you just need several basic stationary supplies and the rest is optional. Start with getting some basic envelopes, some loose leaf and pens you can write your letters with! Next, if you wish to make your letters more special consider washi tapes in different colors and patterns – these versatile decorative tapes can be used to frame your writing, create borders, or add a pop of color to your envelopes. Select an array of adorable stickers featuring cute characters, symbols, and designs that resonate with your personal style.
Envelopes are like the cozy homes your letters will reside in during their journey. Choose envelopes that match the aesthetic you're aiming for – whether it's pastel shades, vibrant hues, or even vintage-inspired designs. If you're going to decorate the envelopes on your own, make sure theyre plain colored and made from strong material, so when you put stickers or decide to paint it with markers, watercolor or acrylics, it won't fall apart. To take your letters to the next level of elegance, consider using wax seals. These timeless embellishments not only secure your envelopes but also add an air of sophistication to your correspondence making them look like you're writing your letters from the victorian period.
As you gather your supplies, let your creativity run wild. Mix and match colors, experiment with different textures, and explore unique combinations that make your letters stand out. Remember, the goal is to create a visual letter that mirrors your personality and leaves a lasting impression on your penpal.
Now, Let's move on to the pal part of penpalling!
A quick reminder before I get into this section!!
As exhilarating as it is to forge connections with penpals, it's essential to prioritize safety. Before sharing your address with a newfound penpal, take ample time to get to know them. Engage in conversations, discuss your interests, experiences, and aspirations. Gradually build a rapport and assess whether you feel comfortable sharing your personal information.
Remember, trust is earned over time, so take it slow. Genuine penpals will understand your caution and will also be interested in ensuring their safety. If you ever feel uneasy or pressured at any point, don't hesitate to step back or discontinue the correspondence. Back to finding penpals! To find penpals you can try searching up communities online that are specifically for finding penpals, for this there are some penpal accounts on instagram that help people find penpals. A personal favorite of mine is penpals_wantedd, this page has helped me find some very good friends and penpals. https://www.instagram.com/penpals_wantedd/
Besides this there are hashtags on instagram that you can look for inspiration and penpals, like #snailmail or #penpals. There are also communities on reddit like r/penpals, though given reddits reputation for all sorts of internet creeps I would suggest you to be very careful sharing personal information on reddit.
To foster a truly meaningful penpal relationship, it's advisable to seek out individuals within your age group who share similar interests. This common ground will provide a solid foundation for conversations and ensure you have plenty to talk about in your letters. Whether you're both fans of a particular anime, enjoy crafting, or share a love for nature, these shared interests will infuse your letters with authenticity and enthusiasm.
So, you followed all the steps so far and found a wonderful penpal who you can't wait to write a letter to, congrats!! What now?
1. writing the letter
If it's your first letter to this penpal, firstly introduce yourself, write about what you like, what you would enjoy talking about and introduce a bit about the place you're from. For example you can write
"Dear penpal, How are you doing? I can't wait to write and recieve letters from you! I'm strawberry, I live in Turkey, the weather is so cold here right now, how is it where you live? I heard you also like reading manga! Which mangas do you like most? I would like to discuss about manga with you"
2. The extras
This is the part where it gets fun, add confetti, dried flowers, a bag of tea, stickers, envelope-friendly (flat & compact) stationary or whatever you want to gift to your new penpal! To make your letter more interesting add mail tag to your letters, grab a cute memo pad and write 5-10 questions you want to ask your penpal. Most likely, they will answer the questions on another piece of paper and give you a set of questions for you to answer as well. To share your interests with your penpal you can also add playlists and recommendation lists, just write a list of songs you would like to share with your penpal on a piece of paper and put it in the envelope. Extras can be a fun and creative way to share your interests, give gifts and recommend new things, so don't be afraid to add anything extra you would like to share with your penpal!
In conclusion, the world of cute penpal letters is brimming with opportunities to connect with kindred spirits, share experiences, and spread joy across the miles. Whether you opt for Instagram or online penpal communities, the key lies in taking the time to find the right match, establishing trust, and nurturing your connection through heartfelt letters that bring smiles to both you and your penpal's faces. So, good luck to you on embarking this enchanting journey, and who knows, you might just find a lifelong friend in the process. Happy penpalling! 💌
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